The Dilemma...

I don't think life can get any more confusing when it comes to guys. For some reason I always become attracted to the guys that either don't know what they want or can't seem to express it correctly. This is my first problem. Secondly, what do I do when I like two guys equally, but nothing ever seems to happen with either one? One is in another state at the moment and the situation is on hold, while the other comes over and hangs out but never initiates anything. The friend thing is getting old especially when I have a crush on them and would like to be more than friends, but if that were to happen it would makes things more confusing because I like them both... what is a girl to do?